Should employees be given more rights on when and where they work in light of the Covid...read more
I have two children aged 7 and 1 and returned to work last November. I had a mangerial position within a company I have worked for for 11 years. However, I decided that, having two children, I wouldn’t be able to commit to the job fully. I returned on an administrative basis for two days a week. I love my job and love working the two days. My youngest attends nursery and is at the stage where she is catching everything going. Since starting back in November, she has had gastrontritis twice which has meant I have had a total of three days off for dependants on two seperate occasions. I am fully aware I won’t be paid for these days and nor do I expect to be. I have just been called into a meeting with my manager to discuss my attendance and he said he has been asked by the director to talk to me and put it in writing. I questioned this and asked what the next course of action would be if either of my children were ill again. After all I cannot guarantee they won’t be. My manager didn’t really know as he was just the messenger and he actually felt it was a unjust conversation and could see that on the occasions I had off I had no other choice. My manager questioned with HR if it was required in writing and they said at this stage it was just a chat. I didn’t feel as if it was a chat at all. I feel totally under pressure about the situation and I am worried about what they will do if either of my children are ill again. There are other mums in the office too and they have had time off in the past. I know they have not been spoken to and what’s more they have been paid, but I am happy not to be paid. There are also other people within the office who have got far worse attendance records than me and they also have not been spoken to.
I feel as if I am always treated differently to everyone else as I worked directly under the director for many years before he was a director. My manager also said he was in a foul mood that day and therefore that maybe prompted him to act. Can they put pressure on me for the time I have taken and given that it is unpaid? I could understand if the illness was a long period of time in which I could arrange some help. Please could you advise me.
You might also want to consider Parental Leave if more than a couple of days is required to care for a child – this is unpaid too – but is a statutory right and would be another way of showing to your company that you are trying to be proactive when you have issues at home. You can find out more about Parental Leave via ACAS or the www.berr.gov.uk website.