Employment solicitor and life coach Lorna Valcin gives some advice to people who may be rethinking their working lives amid all the current uncertainty and change.
My journey through to clarity, confidence and courage in making tough decisions took place about eight years ago when I started having thoughts and feelings of confusion, lack of energy and self-doubt that I could not shift.
I needed a change, but wasn’t sure why or what that change was, but I know now that I was procrastinating in not facing it head on. What I came to realise in the end was that actually I just needed to do something because those thoughts and feelings were immobilising me and stopping me from taking my next right step.
Are you feeling confused about your next move perhaps or just know that a move is necessary but are not sure why? Is the fear of a move keeping you stuck or is there a realisation that you have had that you don’t want to accept?
My journey was about leaving a fairly well-paid partnership in a firm of solicitors because I wasn’t feeling the passion for it any more, despite the hard work and achievement that had got me there.
The change I made was to resign without another job to then become a self-employed solicitor working as a consultant because I realised that I needed the freedom that working in this way brought me.
Working through the steps I outline above brought me the clarity confidence and courage that I needed to make the move. Your situation might be different, but would, in my opinion, still need clarity confidence and courage.
Procrastination and limiting beliefs will try to stop you going forward, but that’s where a coach can help in realising what is behind them and moving on from them.
*Lorna Valcin is an employment solicitor and life coach. E-mail: LVcoachingse[email protected]. Facebook: LV Coaching. Instagram: l.v_coaching